Still Skeptical?
Start Here, if you are skeptical!
We understand. You’re not alone if you’ve landed here with some doubt, hesitation, or even eye-rolls.
At Awarenest, we welcome your questions, even the critical ones. Here’s a transparent look at what we do (and don’t do) so you can make an informed decision about working with Awarenest and Blanka.
"Skeptical, as it all sounds vague and unscientific."
Family Constellation and Conscious Parenting coaching may sound unfamiliar. Still, they’re grounded in systemic thinking, emotional intelligence, and decades of lived client experience. While not a clinical service, our work creates tangible changes in relationships, stress levels, and parenting dynamics.
"There are free resources online. Why shall I pay you?"
Great question. Free resources are an excellent start, but they’re generalized. What we offer is personalized, responsive, and co-created with you. You’re not getting a generic answer. You’re getting a strategy built around *you* and for you, specifically.
"Are you qualified to do this?"
Yes, and you should ask this of anyone you’re considering working with. Awarenest is founded by a certified facilitator trained in Family Constellation work and coaching. Our services are ethical and continuously evolving through ongoing education.
"Is this therapy without a license?"
No. We don’t diagnose or treat mental illness. Coaching and Systemic or Family Constellation work are designed to complement – not replace – therapy. When deeper psychological needs arise, we refer to licensed professionals and respect the boundaries of our scope.
"Family Constellation feels too mystical."
It can sound that way until you experience it. Constellation work helps reveal unconscious family patterns that may be impacting your present life. It’s experiential, not theoretical, and many clients find it to be the missing piece in their healing journey.
"Isn't this just storytelling or roleplay?"
It might look like that from the outside, but it often uncovers surprisingly accurate emotional truths. We don’t push narratives; we follow what emerges with care, curiosity, and client-led pacing. You find every session different. We do not work with cookie-cutter solutions.
"Is there any scientific backing?"
While not fully embraced by mainstream psychology (yet), Family Constellation intersects with research on intergenerational trauma, epigenetics, and systemic theory. Current findings in neuroscience, attachment, and co-regulation support Conscious Parenting.
“Is this against God?”
It’s a question I hear sometimes, especially from people with a strong faith. And I get it! When something feels unfamiliar, it’s natural to wonder.
Family Constellation is not a religion or spiritual belief system. It’s a therapeutic approach that gently uncovers hidden family dynamics and helps bring healing and understanding. Many of my clients say it deepens their connection to their faith, values, and loved ones.
To me, anything that creates more love, truth, and compassion in families is aligned with God.
"Is this emotionally safe?"
Yes. Sessions are held in a compassionate and non-judgmental space. We go at your pace and based on your agenda. Nothing is forced. Emotional safety is our foundation.
"Conscious Parenting sounds trendy."
It’s not about being trendy. It’s about being intentional. This approach equips you with tools for emotional regulation, healthy boundaries, and deeper connection. It’s not perfect parenting; it’s *present* parenting.
"Am I being judged as a bad parent if I don't do this?"
Absolutely not. Conscious Parenting is not about shame. It’s about support. We believe you’re doing your best already, and we’re here to help you feel more resourced while doing it.
"Sounds too idealistic for real life."
I get it. Parenting is messy and sometimes confusing. Conscious Parenting isn’t about perfection. It’s about building trust, repairing when needed, and finding your calm in the chaos.
"Where's the line between therapy and coaching?"
Coaching looks at the present and future; therapy often explores past trauma and mental health. If your needs shift into therapeutic territory, we’ll help you find a qualified therapist. We know our lane, and we respect it.
"There's no guarantee of results."
True. Growth isn’t a product, it’s a process. We promise a safe, honest space for transformation with tools you can take into your daily life.
"This feels like a luxury service."
Healing, support, health, and well-being shouldn’t be luxuries, but we know that pricing matters. That’s why we offer free consultations to see if this is the service that can support you through your healing journey.
"It's too woo-woo for me."
We keep it grounded. No incense is required. Just clear facilitation, emotional insight, and honest conversations. You may be surprised by how well this work resonates if you value logic and depth.
"Your website doesn't convince me."
Fair. Websites have limitations, but people don’t. That’s why we invite you to a free, no-pressure call to ask your questions and find out whether we’re the right fit.