About Me
Hello,
I am Blanka.
I am a woman, a wife, a mom, a daughter, a sister, a conscious parenting coach, a family constellation practitioner, and many more.
I am here to work with you and your family to raise your awareness and shift your perspective as a parent.
“My mission is to contribute to raising a mentally, physically, and emotionally healthier generation and it all starts with us! With the parents. So come and join me to raise happier and more fulfilled kids!”
Let’s create that CHANGE together! The CHANGE so you can cherish a conscious parenting environment where you and your kids can thrive.
My journey and my why?
According to the research for many people the number #1 fear – even ahead of fear of death – is public speaking! For me it has been becoming a parent.
In 2011 I traded my seemingly fantastic real estate job in Budapest, Hungary to poopy diapers and I became an au-pair in California taking care of two young kids. The two years as an au-pair made me realize how much baggage we are passing onto our kids and how our generational patterns influence our behavior and our parenting.
One day after having a challenging day with the kids and after multiple meltdowns from both of us, I felt my impatience rising in me. This feeling was strange, and I felt that it did not even belong to me. I felt like I caught my mom and her impatience in me. Honestly, it scared me initially, but it also triggered a change and I began my journey of self-awareness and self-improvement. I wanted to become a more patient, empathetic, and self-aware person, au-pair, and later parent. I embarked on a self-discovery journey and since then I have not looked back.
My journey has been eye-opening and fascinating (with lots of ups and downs), and now having our own baby I feel more comfortable in my skin as a mom.
Every journey of parenting is different and that’s the beauty of it!
Are you ready to step into your power and become a more empathetic, self-aware, and conscious parent for yourself and your child or children?
It’s time! Take that initial step closer to the parent who you really want to be!
We all want the best for our child or children. We all want them to be happy, successful, loved, fulfilled, you name it! We want to give them the best of the best, but giving the best starts with giving our best self as parents, not with toys or gadgets. We, as parents are our kids’ foundation, and we cannot provide to them if we do not feel well in our own skin and as parents.
Having a healthy and balanced relationship with our children starts with being content in our own skin as an adult and in our relationships. It’s like a ripple effect when you toss a stone into a pond.
In many cases though our own family patterns, generational traumas – I call it our “baggage”– stands between our partner, children, (even ourselves) and the envisioned parent who we truly want to be. Without self-awareness we are running and raising our kids on autopilot, pushing our own agenda, thinking we know what’s best for them. But what we do not see every day running this auto program, is THEM!
My approach and what you can expect while working together
Get to the root
I do not put band aids on problems or challenges. Together we get to the root cause so the shift in what you would like to achieve is sustainable and long-lasting.
Solution-oriented
We identify obstacles and together we create a tailored plan and an effective strategy to overcome them. I am here to guide you to a solution that works best for you and your family.
This is about you and not me
You can get as much out of working together as you put into this. It’s all about you. I am here to play a supportive and facilitating role, but the key and the power are in your hands. At the end of the day, it is your responsibility, autonomy, free will, self-discovery, and accountability that matters on your journey.
Respect
I respect you, your beliefs, values, and your autonomy. This is fundamental to creating a non-judgmental and inclusive working relationship and space.
Courage
I would encourage you to step out of your comfort zone and have the courage to be comfortable with being uncomfortable, face challenges, and pursue growth.
In case, you have further questions, you check frequently asked questions and the answers on FAQs page or just contact me.
My Core Values
Effectiveness
I know these methods work and they are transformative. They can effectively change people’s life, and that’s why I love them.
Authenticity
I can work with methods and techniques that I deeply believe in. I tried them and they helped me tremendously.
Honesty
While I believe empathy is key to build a true and working relationship, I do not dance around telling the truth to you even if it might be ugly sometimes.
Continuous learning and development
I am committed to continuously working on myself and striving to provide the best solutions for you.